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Control and Influence · A Line Marcus Kept

Open this as a leaf in the Emperor’s Notebook, not as a detached definition. Distinguish what is wholly yours in judgment and choice from outcomes you may affect without commanding. The purpose is to notice the judgment being made, consult the named record, and decide what conduct can still be commanded.

On this page you will get a clear explanation, a way to examine the idea, exact evidence from public-domain Stoic texts, and links for continuing the study.

The matter: a boundary between ideas

Control and Influence belongs here because it changes how a person names the event before acting. Begin with the bare occurrence, then write the prediction, demand, fear, or appetite laid over it.

This is a correction addressed to oneself. It does not require passivity, emotional numbness, or certainty about the outcome; it asks for an exact account of the choice still available.

Convene the ancient record

The evidence attached to this leaf comes from Epictetus. Its working locators are Epictetus, Enchiridion 1, Epictetus, Enchiridion 1, and Epictetus, Enchiridion 2. The voices remain attributed so that Marcus never silently absorbs another author.

Read the preserved wording before the interpretation. Ask what distinction the passage actually makes, what it leaves unresolved, and whether your first impression has claimed more than the source warrants.

Sources: Epictetus, Enchiridion 1; Epictetus, Enchiridion 2

Enter what remains under command

Enter The Command Ledger when the distinction must become conduct: Sort what is yours from what no choice can command.

Write the next action narrowly enough to perform: what you will say, refuse, prepare, repair, or leave alone. Fortune includes another person’s reply, reputation, delay, and the final result.

Sources: Epictetus, Enchiridion 1

Return without awarding a verdict

After the event, compare the vow with the action. Record what was learned about control and influence without converting one outcome into a score for character.

A clean return names what happened, what belonged to choice, what did not, and the one rehearsal worth carrying into the next day.

What the primary texts say

These excerpts keep their work and exact locator so you can check the claim in context rather than accepting a detached quotation.

“Of things some are in our power, and others are not. In our power are opinion (ὑπόληψις), movement towards a thing (ὁρμή), desire, aversion (ἔκκλισις, turning from a thing); and in a word, whatever are our own acts: not in our power are the body, property, reputation, offices (magisterial power), and in a word, whatever are not our own acts.”
— Epictetus, Enchiridion 1 · George Long translation · Open the public-domain edition
“Remember then that if you think the things which are by nature slavish to be free, and the things which are in the power of others to be your own, you will be hindered, you will lament, you will be disturbed, you will blame both…”
— Epictetus, Enchiridion 1 · George Long translation · Open the public-domain edition
“Take away then aversion from all things which are not in our power, and transfer it to the things contrary to nature which are in our power. But destroy desire completely for the present.”
— Epictetus, Enchiridion 2 · George Long translation · Open the public-domain edition

Frequently asked questions

How should I use this notebook leaf on Control and Influence?

Bring one real event, separate it from the first impression, inspect the cited ancient record, and choose one action that remains yours. The leaf is a method for examination, not a promise to control the outcome.

Sources: Epictetus, Enchiridion 1

Does this present Epictetus as Marcus Aurelius?

No. Marcus is the permanent centre of the product, while every other ancient author remains explicitly named as a source in the wider Stoic record.

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